Having sex while you or your partner are menstruating is often considered taboo. But while things may get a little messy, with a little forward planning and preparation, sex during periods is possible- and can actually be beneficial for your health and your relationship. "Bangin' While Bleedin'" is available at my Medium page
Photo by Alexandru Zdrobău on Unsplash Have you every felt like you're juggling so many balls in the air that you're kind of afraid to slow down the tempo or- god forbid- let one of the balls drop in case you lose your momentum and fuck the whole kit and kaboodle right up? Yeah, I'm … Continue reading So Tired… But It’s All Good
My goodness, how did I manage to forget to share this with you!? This past week, I was flattered to have been the inspiration for an exquisitely sexy piece of erotica! My good friends H.H. and Lola Down surprised me with "Sound", an erotic part fiction/part non-fiction (I leave it to you to imagine which … Continue reading Jupiter Plays the Erotic Protagonist: “Sound” by H.H.
Hello again, my lovely Lair-ies. I hope that you are all well and, if you are currently in a Covid lockdown, I hope you are not going too stir-crazy. (We went into Lockdown 2.0 a couple of weeks ago here in the UK 😥) The week just past has been a very productive and positive … Continue reading Writing Once Again: Bye for Now, Writer’s Block!
Hello everyone, I've popped into the Lair to do some updating and housekeeping, and while I'm here, I wanted to share this article by Goran Radanovic, all about why having sex is so good for our health! You can read the full article at https://eroticalust.com/ , and there's lots of articles and short stories to … Continue reading Recommendation: “8 Ways Your Health Benefits From Having Sex” by Goran Radanovic (Eroticalust.com)
For all its benefits, there is nothing quite like Social Media for angrying up the blood and turning us into shouty, hostile ogres. While there is some satisfaction to be had in expressing your viewpoint (within reason!), engaging in too many social media squabbles can leave you feeling riled up and stressed-out. With our Social … Continue reading “Give It a F#*king Rest!”: Stepping Away from Social Media for the Sake of Your Sanity [Article Link]
If you have ever published a book through Kindle Direct Publishing (KDP), you may have thought about turning your book into an audiobook but presumed that the process would be time-consuming and expensive. However, increasing numbers of self-published and indie authors are discovering just how easy it can be to open up their work to … Continue reading Both Sides Now: Learn How to Turn Your Book into an Audiobook — from Someone With Experience on Both Sides of the Process [Article Link]
Hello, Lovely Lairies! I have written an article over on Medium, and wanted to share the link with you. I am new to Medium, so please forgive me if I've got this wrong, but this should be a "Friends Link", meaning that if you aren't a Medium member and have already used up your free … Continue reading Lamentations of a Freelancer: The Struggle to Survive in the COVID Economy [Article]
It's a cliché, I know, yet also a truism: time flies when you're having fun. And though life has thrown me some very big curveballs through the past twelve months, when it comes to my blogging journey, I certainly have been having fun! One year ago this weekend I, on a spur of the moment … Continue reading Transit of Jupiter- The Lair is One Year Old
If you're a regular visitor to the Lair, you will probably have noticed that I haven't written any smut in a while. The dearth of my creative writing started with a very reasonable and understandable cause; I was flat out working on audiobook projects and genuinely had too few hours in the day left in … Continue reading Write or Wrong: Struggling with Writer’s Block During a Depressive Episode