My Exciting News: Why I’ve been absent from The Lair

Hello, lovely Lair-ies. So, you may have noticed that I haven't been posting much over the last few weeks, haven't been reading and commenting as much as usual, and haven't even SOSS-ed or Masturbation Monday-ed for a little while. I've alluded to some exciting new opportunities that I've been working on, but up until now … Continue reading My Exciting News: Why I’ve been absent from The Lair

What’s the Buzz?: Sex-Toy Reviews – The Power Flower from Satisfyer

As regular visitors to the Lair are no doubt aware, I've been AWOL from the blog for a couple of weeks, due to illness, new job opportunities and some tight work deadlines. But when I wrapped up one of my projects and felt a little breathing space for a minute, I found myself drawn to … Continue reading What’s the Buzz?: Sex-Toy Reviews – The Power Flower from Satisfyer

“Rejection: It Sucks, But Is It a Blessing in Disguise?”

I'm thrilled to have another guest contribution published in The Smutlancer. This time I'm looking at rejection, and musing upon how we can learn to look at a rebuff in a more positive light. You can read my article at The Smutlancer, here. With thanks to the fabulous Doctor J for her input, and to … Continue reading “Rejection: It Sucks, But Is It a Blessing in Disguise?”

What’s the Buzz? Sex Toy Review: The Lifelike Thrusting Vibrating Silicone Realistic Dildo from Bestvibe

When it comes to enjoying penis-style vibrators and dildos, especially in masturbatory situations, it's fun to be able to replicate the real thing. But while many purveyors of penetrative sex-toys purport to provide life-like thrills, the number of toys that can actually deliver on the claims are considerably fewer.My very first vibrator purchase was a … Continue reading What’s the Buzz? Sex Toy Review: The Lifelike Thrusting Vibrating Silicone Realistic Dildo from Bestvibe